some advise

let me tell u, people meet people in times of there life.. its natural that we fall for the one we think we are in love with, wen actually we are making the mistake of not understanding or lets say, not knowing each other that well.. what i am trying to say is, basically we know tht being human beings, we should accept tht, life wont give us what we always want and that the best thing is to accept everything happily no matter you may have to cry.. Allah has never complicated our life with depression and sorrow.. its just we who doesnt understand what we've got! now if i am not wrong, for example you have a father but not a mother, so you complain to your self that you cant live without a mother, lets say, you have a fulltime busy scheduled job but you cant sleep well,, so is it time to complain?,, or lets say you handle money and power very well, but you cant handle your wife! so u complain??
NO! its not even close to complain! its just we humans never thank for what we have and got. just imagine, allah has given us a good healthy body with a brain. that makes our life. what else do we need to complain? there are tons of people who are blind, homeless etc... we should be thankful for what we have rahter than complaining to our selves. be patient with what ever face you! dont try to find the path over your head, but try finding it underneath you foot. then only you'll see your self in the right way..