what is life??? eh?
well... different people consider life differently as they face different scenarios in times.. what i am trying to say is, life it self cannot be destroyed or perfected unless you do it. people destroy their lives (even though its me) just for the sake of hope, and love. i wonder how many of you all think of what you have done in your past when you realize how wrong your decisions were for the future.... LOVE isnt everything in life,, happiness is more important than love i suppose.. o.O
most of the girls fall in love after seeing the honesty, loyalty, and the caring that they never expect... but what happens when they start the relation??? things begin to change.. and unknowingly the betrayals get involved... wait a sec.. abt the betrayals.. well there has to be a HUGE reason to occur the betrayals isn't it?? of course without a reason nothing would happen and i personally believe it... betrayals WILL BE there, IF THE RELATION SHIP IS NOT THAT STRONG...cause we are human beings and there are certain things we human beings cant controll in our lives.. anyway.... wat ever it is....
one thing which i am sure and you all will agree on is that, a married life, or a boy girl relationship cannot be perfect if its one sided... nomatter howmuch you try, you can not make it.. cause its ONLY you who is trying and not him or her.. however people believe that its better to pretend normal when nothing is infect normal.. people tend to serach happiness in llives where they know that they can never reach to it.. hence life leads to a failier and you never know your life is been ruined.. time can never heal it.. unless you find a better way to seak happiness rather than just staying and pretending that your OK...
well.. some peoples life is all about THE MISTAKE once they did.. where you had a choice of re-correcting it and not attending it... which you have no choice of undoing it in future... however, once the decision is been done.. you tend to think this.."what the fuck have i done!! this is not worth living!!!" and you got no other option than staying in your life due to cerctain circumstances or for the sake of your so called love and time you gathered to build this life....and so u cry watching others beautiful lives.. and thinking when would u have the chance to have a happy life... (and thats why i say life sucks!!)
PS: this is just a random thought about life.. its nothing to do with MY LIFE.. :)
Monday, January 26, 2009
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Posted by PemPeNeyNo AnEsThEyShiYa at 2:09 AM
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a thoughtful post indeed.
nice thought dear.. its been a while since u havent posted anything but this is good
nothin about ur life dho... hmm well one thing i disagree with ya on the "life sux" bit...getiing dumped by parents early in childhood,growing up alone,getting heart broken by the girl ur about to marry.etc.. well enough reason for me to say life sux but hey..life goes on.. we all get what we can handle..soo better face life
thanks DC, niklen and preeti :)
hmmmm, seems like ive been away for quite a while. i like this one. and yea, no point in getting all worked up in a one sided relationship. itll go nowhere. before you know it even the person that is working for it will give up and go looking elsewhere. i gues it mainly depends on the circumstances. Questions like are you married? do you have children? so you're still in you 20s?...play an important role when one is trying to decide what he/she should do next or if he/she wants to start anew and let go of the current relationship. Cos before you know it those Qs that one will ask themselves brings out answers that make you realise your shackles are more tight and unbreakable than you thought they were.
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